This analogy is brilliant in its simplicity. For some reason, it helped to picture the murky waters of a divorce where spouses once committed to love (clear water), now find themselves floating with dirtier inferences or doubts. How can they clarify that water again in the fishbowl without shattering their existence? I have witnessed so much pain and devastation with divorces. But how do people .learn to measure the levels of murkiness in their marriage. A lot of food for thought.